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Thinking for the New Year

Thinking for the New Year

So, after everything went completely pear shaped for me and my potential master over a week ago, I’ve been left struggling to understand what exactly happened, why it went so bad, so quickly. With a little bit of breathing space, we've managed to talk through things to a certain degree and we've come through the other side with a better understanding of ourselves. For me, this is perfect, it’s highlighted the areas of my personality that may need a little tweaking in any future partners/friendships I may cultivate.  Things I can improve on in this New Year! I will be dominated in 2015!

Now, bearing that in mind, I’m now left to decide what to do next. I know that I am not ready to seek out a new master just yet, I’m certainly not going to be actively searching. unless the right guy or gall crosses my path! I think part of my problem was that I was so eager to start on this kinky path, that I just went along and got caught up in the first person that came and said some of the things I needed to hear. I need to let things happen naturally, not push myself into being what someone else needs. I need to go at a pace that I am happy with, I need to pay attention to my needs and wants as well as another persons. Yes, there will be times that I am nervous, that I will worry, but I will need to keep a level head and listen to myself. To realise when I need to back off and take my time, and when I need to push through my barriers. It may be tricky at times, but I just need to give myself enough time to figure things out I guess. Time to think!

So now I’m wondering, what would be the best way forward for me? Just talking to different people, or if I manage to build a connection, do I consider a friends with benefits type of relationship with someone who’s more into the kinky aspect, apposed to a dom/sub type? So I can try things and learn on a practical basis as well as verbally? So that I can try different things properly, to see where my tastes actually lie.

The test for me will be whether I can do either of these things, make connections, and keep my head straight at the same time. This year will be hard.  Not get swept up and carried away. It’s going to take time, practice and patients………three things I’m not exactly renound for! Fingers crossed, I can keep a level head, while either option possibly develops.

I will be thinking hard this year and making those choices to satisfy my need for pleasure!

How would you stimulate?

Stimulation!

Seductive stimulating tones.  You can’t beat a rich, deep yummy voice seductively whispering in your ear.  It sends chills down your spine and goosebumps roll across your flesh as the words trickle over you like warm slippery liquid, exciting your arousal and your imagination. It’s one of those things that just stops you in your tracks, whether you’re in an intimate moment with someone or just walking down the street.  The compulsion to wait and hear what the person is talking about, hanging on their every word, even if it’s just in the local Starbucks as they order their coffee, you need to hear their voice.  At those intimate times, just one word can almost bring you to climax.

One of my favourite, intimate fantasies is, I’m stood up and blindfolded. Having someone stood behind me, so close our bodies are almost touching, so I feel the heat from their body. Slowly they lightly brush my hair to one side, exposing the flesh of my neck and throat, trailing their fingers across the base of my neck at the back. The feeling of their light touch amplified by not being able to see what they are doing or are planning to do to me. They stay silent as they draw patterns across my skin, over my shoulder and over my collar bone, until they finally reach my throat and grasp it firmly. Leaning forward they start to whisper in my ear exactly what they want from me and what they intend to do to me. Their deep rumbling whisper not only entering my ear, but my mind, tantalising me, making my imagination ignite as my flesh explodes in goosebumps, even though my body is heating up with desire, making me whimper and succumb to their every need. They then finish me off. But hold out bit by bit to ensure the explosion is immense.

Yes, a voice is a powerful weapon against a person like me.

What sort of person are you???

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Turn me on!

Turn me on!!!

Some of the biggest turn ons can come from the mind, daydreaming and thinking of the things that you know you shouldn't want to do, you can make them seem all the more enticing and delectable. The mind is a very powerful tool, whether it’s thinking up a scene to play out with your partner, thinking of being with someone that you shouldn't or just fantasising about being taken, you can lose hours in thought, hours in sin!

All people are different, what seems vanilla to one person and boring can  seem exciting to another. I have friends who have done things sexually that would make my mind boggle I’m sure, and that’s cool for them, but for me, I’m pretty simple and easy to please. My thoughts, ideas and fantasies are quite basic and mundane compared to most. Compared to those that control these feelings and master the acts.

I want to be taken, as in, someone takes one look at me and has to have me right there and then, no matter where we are. They have to pick me up or push up against the wall, restrain me and have me, right then. To feel like someone wants you that much would be wicked but all enrapturing!

I want to be taken, not in the same way as above, but differently. I want someone who knows me, so I can trust them, to grab me, whisk me off somewhere I’m not expecting, so where we are and what we are doing is not expected. For them to blindfold me, restrain me and have me as they want me, whilst knowing my limits. I want to feel the adrenalin, the rush, the desire from someone needing to have me how they want, for them to use me as they see fit.

Thirdly, I want someone to surprise me. For someone to want me without me knowing, for them to hesitate when they make their move and I say no. But for them to really look at me, to read my body language and push me anyway, because to have my will taken from me when I secretly want it to be taken, is one of my things. For them to see that my voice may be saying no, but my pupils are dilated, my breathing erratic and my pulse thrumming, reaching down between my legs to feel just how excited they have made me.

Yes these will seem plain and boring to many, but these are some of the little things that excite me and I want and need. I need to be turned on.

Can you help me?

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The Daydreamer

The need to be loved, to be dominated to be the one for them! The Daydreamer!

Who doesn't love to feel, to imagine the fluttering feeling of hundreds of wings beating a chaotic rhythm deep inside their tummy, as adrenalin hums through the veins and we wait with anticipation.
There’s still an hour to go, the time seems to drag as I watch the hands on the clock continue their mercilessly slow countdown.  Will this be the one who will?

As I sit and wait, I start to day dream, there’s a knock at the door……he’s finally here! I jump up and race to the door, feeling the butterflies start to somersault inside me, my heart racing with nervousness. Timidly I open it and am met with possibly the cutest smile beaming at me, seeing his smile always makes me happy.
I allow him to enter and close the door, 'Click' he locks it. As I turn around he’s there, close up in my personal space, that smile still dazzling. My breath hitches as his strong hand grasps the hair at the back of my neck, as he pushes me up against the door, pressing his body into mine. My breathing is shallow as my body starts to tingle and moisten at the commanding contact. He whispers a barely there kiss to my lips, instantly make me crave more… More... More!!!!

And then I snap awake from my daydream, only 20 minutes has passed. I squirm in my seat, how can daydreaming turn me on so much? As I sit and reflect on my daydream, my breathing evens out, the cloud from my delicious thoughts dissipates and I’m left waiting, again feeling the butterflies. What will happen when I hear that knock at the door? Will it be this daydream or one of the countless others I have had these last few days?

Its that time of year we think about those we love and those we want to love!  Those we must please and to please ourselves.  How can we best this feeling.  Constant daydream and sharing the passion.  Constant Sin!

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