Some of the biggest turn ons can come from the mind, daydreaming and thinking of the things that you know you shouldn't want to do, you can make them seem all the more enticing and delectable. The mind is a very powerful tool, whether it’s thinking up a scene to play out with your partner, thinking of being with someone that you shouldn't or just fantasising about being taken, you can lose hours in thought, hours in sin!
All people are different, what seems vanilla to one person and boring can seem exciting to another. I have friends who have done things sexually that would make my mind boggle I’m sure, and that’s cool for them, but for me, I’m pretty simple and easy to please. My thoughts, ideas and fantasies are quite basic and mundane compared to most. Compared to those that control these feelings and master the acts.
I want to be taken, as in, someone takes one look at me and has to have me right there and then, no matter where we are. They have to pick me up or push up against the wall, restrain me and have me, right then. To feel like someone wants you that much would be wicked but all enrapturing!
I want to be taken, not in the same way as above, but differently. I want someone who knows me, so I can trust them, to grab me, whisk me off somewhere I’m not expecting, so where we are and what we are doing is not expected. For them to blindfold me, restrain me and have me as they want me, whilst knowing my limits. I want to feel the adrenalin, the rush, the desire from someone needing to have me how they want, for them to use me as they see fit.
Thirdly, I want someone to surprise me. For someone to want me without me knowing, for them to hesitate when they make their move and I say no. But for them to really look at me, to read my body language and push me anyway, because to have my will taken from me when I secretly want it to be taken, is one of my things. For them to see that my voice may be saying no, but my pupils are dilated, my breathing erratic and my pulse thrumming, reaching down between my legs to feel just how excited they have made me.
Yes these will seem plain and boring to many, but these are some of the little things that excite me and I want and need. I need to be turned on.
Can you help me?
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